I understand people turn to the server to have fun and forget whats happening in their life currently even for a short time. I have no problem getting along with people, but if they choose to start an argument they should be prepared to finish it. Both times I was warned to stop "Harrassing players" I stopped talking to them in chat, and continued on with what I was doing. I understand Nerd has rules to uphold but if you are going to hold them to one player, hold them to another.
As for the first issue of "harrassment" I pointed out a user was just basically copy pasting builds from a map made by someone else into the server. I never said they couldn't do it, I pointed it out and talked about it with another player and that was it. today that same player decided to jump into a conversation they weren't in to begin with and try and tell me what to do, I told them they could "Take their comments and shove it up their ass" was it harsh? Maybe, but I wasn't in the mood for him to try and dictate what was happening.